Ashley “Ash” Trevino is a 36-year-old TikTok influencer, infamously known for her live feeds, where she exposes her atrocious lifestyle and behaviors. It is unfortunate that much of the information and actions of Trevino have been fed to the public unwillingly. It’s almost impossible not to have heard of her, especially if you use the app regularly. 

TikTok live broadcasts are often done to sell products, connect with fans, and essentially make money. “Gifts” are virtual items sent by viewers to support creators, and it’s a coin-based system that represents actual money. These gift prices range from $1 to nearly $600. Apparently, some fans have way too much time and money on their hands. 

Some creators, like Ash Trevino, are lonely and live off the money they receive from their TikTok Lives, making between one to two thousand dollars a day through gifts alone. To be fair, original content creators who work hard should not be shamed for receiving money from their content on social media. 

But Ash Trevino is not one of these creators. 

Trevino excessively shares her life online, and it has become quite concerning how difficult it is for her to turn off her phone. She is one lady to remember, but not for anything good. She is the mother to two daughters, Hailey and Evie, who are 16 and 13 years old, respectively. People are actively trying to get her kids taken away from her, with over twenty cases pending through Child Protective Services, and it is not hard to see why.

Unintentionally or not, Trevino pours such evil and harmful insecurities onto her daughters, playing them off as a joke. She constantly nitpicks and makes faces at her children, and she openly encourages them to get lip fillers and nose jobs, while even sexualizing them on camera. 

Every now and then on TikTok Live, Trevino will “attempt” to take a more parental stance with her kids, but it just looks as though she is playing house. Trevino treats her kids like they are her friends, disregarding her role as their parent.

Trevino seems to have no self-awareness of her actions. Multiple times, she has doxxed her family’s physical location, including their home address. Her daughters have reported suspicious cars circulating their house, and they have even spoken with police with regards to it. This is all while their mother has been actively broadcasting on Live. 

The privacy of Trevino’s daughters is being constantly invaded, and those girls are not safe. Due to this, their whole lives, including their education, relationships, friendships, and identity, are being jeopardized. Over time the girls have lost countless friends and are currently homeschooled. This is especially concerning, because these girls are unable to live a normal life. It seems as though their mother is robbing them of any opportunity to be creative or to interact with people their own age. 

Trevino’s children even admitted on Only Fans creator Camilla Arauja’s own  podcast that they have lost a lot of confidence, due to “fans” body shaming them. They have become more self-conscious about their appearances and how they are perceived by others, because they’ve been exposed to so much hatred online. Hearing those comments can cause body dysmorphia and possibly eating disorders. 

Predictably, Trevino just laughs off these claims, not truly understanding how sad and dangerous the situation has become. Her daughters have also publicly admitted to feeling like their mother has exploited different situations only to garner money and attention. 

At one point, Trevino asked her followers to “send galaxies [or money] to know about my baby girl’s health”, after one of her daughters was hospitalized. Her empathy for her kids goes out the window when it comes to money. I do not wish to “mom-shame” anyone, but Trevino is far beyond a good mother after what she has put her children through. 

Trevino also has no idea how to manage her own money. It seems that over-indulging herself on material items is more rewarding than giving her kids a stable life or home environment. Trevino loves to show off her wealth, even at the expense of her children’s wellbeing. 

Until March of this year, Trevino’s own children did not have their own beds in her home. Her daughters were expected to share a mattress on the floor, while Trevino had her own bedroom. Times are hard and things are expensive, but Trevino is wealthy enough to provide basic necessities for her daughters. And yet she constantly makes excuses for her laziness and lack of responsibility and compassion. 

Other people are actively trying to provide for these girls, because their mother is publicly failing to be a parent. Trevino brags about her authentic luxury bags and car, while showing off her massive grocery hauls filled with endless…chips and junk food. I cannot imagine what her kids are eating at that house. Her money is quickly spent, and poorly at that. 

It unfortunately only gets worse once you hear about her dating history. Rotten Mango, a true crime podcast by Stephanie Soo, has done a deep dive into her dating history. Trevino is notoriously known as an inmate hopper, and she is seen endlessly defending each and every one of these men’s actions. These criminals are not just in jail for something small. These men are murderers, and Trevino’s kids are surrounded by these monsters because their mother has no regard for their safety.

Trevino’s high school sweetheart, and the father of both her daughters, may have been the only decent man in their lives. After their split, he still remained present in his daughter’s lives, until he unfortunately passed away from leukemia in 2023. It’s very clear that her daughters are still actively grieving his loss, as they’ve asked their mother to stop bringing him up only to get sympathy and attention.  

Former husband, Isaiah Gonzalez, a childhood friend of Trevino’s with a six-year age gap, was sentenced to forty-five years in prison for murder at the age of 15. Noe Trevino, Chris Watts, Francisco Montero, and Eli Rodriguez, are all convicted murderers, who are some of the prominent inmates Trevino is alleged to have dated. These men are inhumane, having been convicted of other crimes in addition to murder, including arson, robbery, assault, gang affiliation and manslaughter. 

Trevino is not oblivious of their actions, and she has even laughed on TikTok Live about those people who have been murdered by her past boyfriends. But she just loves to have men in her life who have broken the law, despite the danger it may cause for her daughters. 

Trevino loves being on TikTok Live, and that’s the reason most of this information is public. She can decide, as a mother, to create a stable and safe home for her children, but she chooses not to and I cannot understand why. There is constant new information circulating about what her daughters have had to endure and the harm that being in the public eye has caused for them. 

Overall, Ash Trevino is a horrible person, and it is clear that she cannot hold herself accountable for her actions and life choices. Everyone should do the right thing and refuse to give her the attention and wealth she so desperately desires. Maybe just watch some storytime or cooking videos instead.